Bullying Prevention
According to educational sources, here are some things you can do to help your child become more aware of bullying behaviors:
Encourage your child to talk about how to make friends, how they treat their friends and how to be a good friend.
Discuss with your child what bullying is and what kinds of behaviors demonstrate bullying.
As you watch television with your child, help him or her identify language, dialogue, or actions that demonstrate bullying behavior, such as "put downs" or "jokes" in comedy shows.
As your child deals with bullying situations at home or school, be open to discussing ways in which he or she can handle those situations. Discuss how to avoid bullying situations.
Help your child become sensitive to his or her own behaviors or language that may be of a bullying nature as he or she deals with siblings or friends.
CONFLICT VS. BULLYING
CONFLICT is a disagreement that happens when people want different things. The people involved in a conflict have equal power to solve the problem. They are not purposely trying to hurt each other.
BULLYING is unfair and one-sided. It happens when someone keeps hurting, frightening, threatening, or leaving someone out on purpose.
5 WAYS TO HANDLE A BULLYING SITUATION
Walk away; find your own friends
Tell an adult and get the teasing stopped fast
Ignore the tease, which takes the fun out of it
Stand up for yourself without fighting
Do what you feel is right, not what others tell you to do
REPORTING VS. TATTLING
REPORTING | TATTLING |
Purpose to keep someone safe | To get someone in trouble |
Need help from an adult | You can solve the problem |
Important | Unimportant |
Harmful or dangerous | Harmless |
Behavior is on purpose | Behavior is an accident |